Child with eating disorder is never happy anymore

Today we’re going to hear from a parent whose teenager has an eating disorder and never seems to be happy. While the parent is trying really hard to make the child happy, it’s just not working. The letter Dear Ginny, My teenage daughter has an eating disorder, but my main problem right now is thatContinue reading “Child with eating disorder is never happy anymore”

How can I stop yelling at my child with an eating disorder?

Today we’re going to hear from a parent who is having trouble with yelling at their child who has an eating disorder.  I’m going to talk through how this parent can start to respond differently and in the process deepen their connection and relationship with their child. The letter Dear Ginny, My child has anContinue reading “How can I stop yelling at my child with an eating disorder?”

Help your child recover from an eating disorder

Today I’m going to address the question of how parents can help a child recover from an eating disorder. I’ll talk about the most important thing that I think parents can do that nobody ever talks about. The letter Dear Ginny, My 12-year-old daughter went to a treatment facility for orthorexia six months ago. WhenContinue reading “Help your child recover from an eating disorder”

Child won’t talk about food and eating

What do you do when your child has an eating disorder and won’t talk about food and eating? It can feel impossible for parents who desperately want to help but can’t break through this barrier. Today I’ll respond to a parent whose son has an eating disorder and refuses to talk about food and eating. ThisContinue reading “Child won’t talk about food and eating”

Unmotivated in eating disorder recovery

Today we’re going to talk about a child who has returned from being in treatment for an eating disorder and is now unmotivated for recovery.  I’ll talk through what this parent can do to help her child stay on the road to recovery and discuss an important technique to help with emotional metabolism, which IContinue reading “Unmotivated in eating disorder recovery”

Food fear in eating disorder recovery

Today we’re going to hear from a parent whose child is facing food fear during eating disorder recovery. She is afraid of food and her list of safe foods is getting smaller and smaller. I’ll talk through what food fear feels like and provide some advice for the parent so that she can help herContinue reading “Food fear in eating disorder recovery”

Son has gained weight – is it binge eating disorder?

Today we’re going to hear from a dad who is worried because his son has gained weight, and he wonders if it’s binge eating disorder. I’ll talk through some of the things to consider and help him make some decisions about moving forward.  The letter Dear Ginny,  My son was chubby as a kid, butContinue reading “Son has gained weight – is it binge eating disorder?”

Child is non-binary and has an eating disorder

A child who is gender fluid, transgender, non-binary, or otherwise gender creative may need special treatment for their eating disorder. The fact is that the intersection of eating disorders and gender identity can be a bit tricky, and it’s best to get specialized, trained care. This can be challenging, so I’ll walk through some ofContinue reading “Child is non-binary and has an eating disorder”

When you’re not allowed to run during eating disorder treatment

It’s fairly common for a treatment team to ask people not to run during eating disorder treatment. This can be complicated since many times being athletic is a major part of a person’s identity and social life. The decision to pull a child from sports should never be taken lightly. But sometimes it is necessaryContinue reading “When you’re not allowed to run during eating disorder treatment”

My daughter is intermittent fasting in eating disorder recovery

Sometimes people who have recovered from an eating disorder can slip back into restriction with compelling diets like intermittent fasting. These diets have a sneaky way of convincing people that they are healthy and an ideal way to eat. But any form of restriction is dangerous territory during recovery. In this article, I respond toContinue reading “My daughter is intermittent fasting in eating disorder recovery”

Movies for eating disorder recovery

If you are in eating disorder recovery (or have a family member in recovery) and are looking for movies to watch, here are a few that I recommend. You’ll notice that I haven’t listed any movies that are actually about an eating disorder. This is because I have yet to find a movie that coversContinue reading “Movies for eating disorder recovery”

What are the causes of eating disorders?

Eating disorders are serious mental illnesses, but what are the causes? Considering that millions of individuals worldwide have eating disorders, this is an important question. And despite the natural assumption, eating disorders affect people of all races, ages and gender. They’re also not limited to people who “look sick.” The majority of people who haveContinue reading “What are the causes of eating disorders?”

Poems for eating disorder recovery

Poems can be an excellent way to reflect on eating disorder recovery. They can help us tap into our feelings and thoughts about bodies, food, our identity, and our place in the world. Most of all, they can help us consider what healing and recovery means for us as individuals, since one size does notContinue reading “Poems for eating disorder recovery”

What is eating disorder recovery?

What is eating disorder recovery, and how do you know what it looks like? It’s a harder question than it may seem to be. Because the fact is that just as every eating disorder is unique, every recovery is unique, too. Defining recovery can be a tricky business, especially since one person’s recovery can lookContinue reading “What is eating disorder recovery?”

10 things I wish the world knew about eating disorders

Facts And Real Confessions About Living With an Eating Disorder I asked hundreds of people who are in recovery or recovered from their eating disorders which facts about eating disorders they want to share with the world. Their answers might surprise you! 1. My eating disorder is there for a reason, and it’s not whatContinue reading “10 things I wish the world knew about eating disorders”

Are eating disorders genetic?

Almost every parent who has a child with an eating disorder asks: are eating disorders genetic? And the underlying secondary question is: is this my fault somehow? So let’s address the real question: are parents to blame for eating disorders? Did they pass along genetic code that caused the eating disorder? No, parents don’t causeContinue reading “Are eating disorders genetic?”

Story: My marriage nearly fell apart during my child’s eating disorder

In this story, we look at parent coaching for Amelie, whose marriage almost fell apart during her daughter Maggie’s eating disorder. Maggie started showing disordered eating behaviors when she was eight years old, and the couple almost immediately locked horns over what it meant and how they should handle it. Maggie is now 12 andContinue reading “Story: My marriage nearly fell apart during my child’s eating disorder”

How parents may accidentally contribute to eating disorder development

Sometimes parents accidentally contribute to their child’s eating disorder – it’s never on purpose, and it’s not the sole cause. But since parental behavior does have an impact on a child’s eating disorder, it’s helpful to take a look. It helps if parents understand how their behavior can impact a child’s eating disorder. This wayContinue reading “How parents may accidentally contribute to eating disorder development”

Story: my adult daughter is estranged because of her eating disorder

In this story, we look at parent coaching for Alicia, whose adult daughter Quinn is in eating disorder recovery and has become estranged. Quinn told Alicia that she has bulimia since the age of about five, but Alicia never knew. Soon after entering treatment for her eating disorder at 32, Quinn told Alicia that sheContinue reading “Story: my adult daughter is estranged because of her eating disorder”

Story: I had a mental breakdown because of my daughter’s eating disorder

In this story, we look at parent coaching for Christina, whose daughter Olivia has an eating disorder, which triggered a mental breakdown for Christina. Olivia was originally diagnosed with anorexia when she was 11 years old and underwent treatment. Christina thought the eating disorder was gone until she found out that Olivia, now 15, hasContinue reading “Story: I had a mental breakdown because of my daughter’s eating disorder”

Resolve to accept your child’s weight

Weight is a major hot-button issue in our culture, and it can be hard to accept our child’s weight. We have been told that it’s our responsibility to keep our kids healthy, and it is. But the lie is that keeping kids healthy means keeping them thin. Those two things are completely different. Raising aContinue reading “Resolve to accept your child’s weight”

Story: My daughter lied about her bulimia

In this story we meet Carol, who says her daughter lied about her bulimia. Carol knows that Jessie is purging frequently, but every time she brings it up, Jessie becomes aggressive, denies it or just ignores her mother. Carol doesn’t know what to do. She’s scared that Jessie will permanently damage her body. But sheContinue reading “Story: My daughter lied about her bulimia”

Story: My daughter is gaining weight

In this story, we look at parent coaching for Gina, whose 8-year-old daughter is gaining weight. Her daughter Becca’s pediatrician raised alarms about her weight at a recent appointment. Gina knows that she has a lot of fear about her daughter’s weight. But she also knows that her own body image and eating issues couldContinue reading “Story: My daughter is gaining weight”

Feel your feelings to help your child recover from an eating disorder

Sometimes when something goes wrong with our kids, we think that we need to clamp down our feelings and just get stuff done. And that might be necessary sometimes. But a big part of eating disorder recovery is learning to feel feelings. Your child is going to learn to process their feelings, and it willContinue reading “Feel your feelings to help your child recover from an eating disorder”

Story: My adult child has anorexia

In this story we take a look at parent coaching for an adult child who has anorexia. We meet Lee, mom to Olivia, who was diagnosed with Anorexia Nervosa at age 13. Lee can’t sleep, and refuses to speak with Olivia until she gets treatment for her eating disorder. But Olivia is 26 years old,Continue reading “Story: My adult child has anorexia”